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Law of Attraction FAQ: You can put your money on the LOA working.

However, mastering it, and even recognizing the signs that it is working, can be confusing and frustrating.

Much of this is due to our programming, as well as all of the minor misunderstandings we have about the LOA, which combine to stymie our success with it.

The solution is straightforward:
Learn the truth about how the Law of Attraction really works, and then align your manifesting efforts with that truth.

Here are some frequently asked questions (and answers) to assist you in finally starting to get what you want using the Law of Attraction:

Law of Attraction FAQ

What is the Law Of Attraction?

According to the Law of Attraction, ‘that which is like unto itself is drawn,’ and ‘like attracts like.’
We believe that this is a Universal law, and that everything in our lives is attracting us.
Everything you think, feel, believe, and see around you is a perfect vibrational match.
Change your feelings and thoughts to influence what happens to you in life.

Make an effort to feel better and observe how your life changes.
If the only two questions you asked yourself about all the subjects that bother you were ‘How do I feel about this?’ and ‘How can I feel better?’ and you went about feeling better them, watch how your life would change.
It’s truly magical to see the results!

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How do we know this is the truth?

These are concepts that we use to describe the world around us, similar to the laws of gravity and motion.
And the Law of Attraction is self-fulfilling- if you believe it works, it will; if you believe it is nonsense, nothing will be able to convince you otherwise.

In this life, all you can do is figure out your own truth.
Everyone has a different perspective and point of view on what is or is not ‘real.’
What I recommend is that you put this to the test.
E2 by Pam Grout is an excellent book if you’re interested in science and want to understand how this works.
While this book did not knock it out of the park for me, it did assist me in shifting vibration, as so much good manifested for me shortly after reading it!

When I first started, I committed to doing the processes for 30 days in a row (meditation, listing some positive aspects, doing focus wheels).
So many wonderful things occurred that it blew my mind and demonstrated that this stuff works.
That was many years ago, and I still follow my procedures on a daily basis.
Put this to the test and see what happens.

How do I put the Law of Attraction into action in my life?

To be pedantic, wishing to apply the Law of Attraction is akin to wishing to apply the Law of Gravity.
The vibrational frequency you emit is constantly applying the Law of Attraction to you.

What you really want to know is how you can use your knowledge of the Law of Attraction to live a better life.

And the solution is to strive for a better feeling thought as often as possible.
When you do this, you are aligned with your true power, and you can then attract what you desire.
It really is that simple – be happier, do it consistently, and watch your life unfold in a variety of exciting ways!

What exactly is mirror work?

Let us begin with one of the less well-known manifestation techniques: mirror work.
What exactly is it?
The mirror technique entails saying affirmations out loud while looking in the mirror at your own reflection.
You can also simply repeat your desires at your own reflection, similar to scripting in the present tense.

With the law of attraction, looking at yourself as you use these words allows you to really tap into your subconscious mind, which can be much more powerful than saying them while your eyes are distracted by other surroundings.

What exactly is a manifesting box?

A manifestation box, also known as an intention box, is another enjoyable activity that can assist you in manifesting your desires.
This is a physical box in which you place items that you wish to manifest.
Messages, notes, scripts, pictures, and objects that represent what you are attempting to manifest are frequently included.

For example, if you want to manifest buying a house, you could include a house key, a small doormat for your house, photos of the type of house you want, and possibly even a map or tour guide of the city where you want to buy your house.
You can also include a script in which you describe your life after purchasing a home.

What if someone attempts to manifest something negative?

When it comes to the law of attraction, this is a common concern.
While most people want to manifest something positive in their lives that has no negative consequences for others, you may be concerned that not everyone has the same dream.

If you’re worried that someone else will use the law of attraction to cause something bad to happen to you or someone else, don’t be!
According to Rhonda Byrne’s book The Power, the law of attraction is about love.

When someone exhibits negative emotions or attempts to manipulate another person, it is not from a place of love.
It is caused by fear, resentment, jealousy, anger, and a variety of other negative emotions.
You can’t manifest anything if you’re filled with negative emotions.

How do you manage your negative emotions?

Similarly, if you are concerned about your own negative feelings while attempting to focus on manifesting, remember that no one can think positively all of the time.
True, the more positive and uplifting your thoughts are, the higher your vibrations will be.

However, just because you have the occasional negative thought does not preclude you from manifesting anything.
You should strive to have more positive thoughts than negative ones.
Allow negative thoughts to enter, be mindful of them, and then let them go.

When you’re having a bad day, how do you focus on the law of attraction?

When you’re having a bad day or dealing with toxic emotions, the best thing you can do is lean into gratitude.
No matter what is going on, find a reason to be grateful.
Whatever your current situation, there is something to be thankful for.

Have a flat tire?
Perhaps you notice someone waiting for the bus while you are waiting for assistance.
Be thankful that you have a car at all, because not everyone does.

Is there a coworker with a bad attitude?
Take pleasure in the fact that you have a job right now.
Remove yourself as much as possible from the coworker and concentrate on the positive aspects of your life.
Find a way to be thankful for your job and all of your other blessings.
Instead of allowing negative thoughts to fester and grow larger than they are, this positive outlook will attract more good things to your circumstances.

Is it possible to use the law of attraction to lose weight?

You can use the law of attraction to dream about anything that makes you happy and brings you joy.
For many people, this entails getting healthier and losing excess weight.
Can the law of attraction assist you in losing weight?
Without a doubt.

It helps with weight loss by altering your mindset.
Excess weight is frequently the result of past negative feelings that caused the weight gain.
This could have been fear, sadness, anger, anxiety, depression, or any of a number of other emotions that result in something you don’t want.

To lose weight using the law of attraction, begin by accessing the feelings you desire when losing weight.
This can help you understand why you want to lose weight and can help you change your mindset.

It also helps a lot if you can live “as if,” which means imagining how your life will change once you lose weight.

Will you go shopping for new clothes?
Will you become more involved?
Is there going to be a change in your diet?
Are you more self-assured and outgoing?
You can do all of these things right now!
You are NOT required to wait until the pounds are gone.
Assume you’ve already lost the weight and begin living your new life.

This is a strong indication to the Universe that you already have what you want, so it will have no choice but to attract itself to you and manifest.

Is it possible to use the LOA to make someone fall in love with you?

The Law of Attraction is a powerful law, and while it may be tempting to use it for this purpose, it will not work against a person’s will.

If you feel the need to manipulate the powers of the Universe in order for someone to see your magnificence, you’re probably pursuing the wrong person.

I urge you to take a step back and reconsider what you truly desire and deserve.
Why would you want someone who isn’t interested in you?

When you’re focused on the love you don’t have, the universe simply cannot add more to your life.

The act of “searching” evokes a sense of desperation, which may obstruct the natural flow of love.

Rather than “looking” for love or wishing for someone to fall in love with you, consider focusing on yourself and ALL the qualities you seek in your ideal partner rather than attempting to win your ex back or wishing for someone to fall in love with you.

Keep in mind that true love should never feel forced 🙂

Although I regularly meditate and visualize, I find it difficult to remove negativity and increase my vibration. Is there anything I can do to help?

Yes, indeed!
What you are experiencing is completely normal, and there is a scientific explanation for it.
Every thought we have is accompanied by an emotion.

Each emotion has its own chemical makeup, which is then passed on to our cells.
When we think or say something negative over and over again, our cells become accustomed to and addicted to that chemical makeup.

When you begin to think differently, your body becomes unhappy, and you feel tired and uneasy because your cells crave negative thoughts.
So it will be difficult at first, but with repetition, you will have your cells craving the positive chemical makeup in no time.

What is the difference between intentions and goals?

Within the area of life that you are working on, your goal describes the big picture of what you want this area to look like, whereas your intention describes WHY you want to achieve this.

An intention is your energetic starting point for motivating yourself to achieve your goal.

Assume your goal is to be certified as a Reiki Healer.
Then your daily intention might be something like, “I embrace my strengths and share them with others.”
Alternatively, “I assist as many people as I can.”

Setting an intention that is aligned with your goal is critical, and doing so will help you decide exactly what aspect of your life you want to focus on, allowing the LOA to work at maximum efficiency for you.

I do everything – I read, I meditate, I listen to subliminal audios, yet I’m still struggling with the LOA. What should I do?

You appear to be doing the right thing by acquiring all of the tools and resources you require to become more abundant; however, you must remain proactive and take action.

One way to increase your abundance flow is to practice gratitude every day, do something that brings you joy, be of service to others, and act on opportunities.

To master the Law of Attraction, you must first know what you want, visualize and truly feel as if you already have it, and then take action in that direction.

I’m having trouble visualizing belief. Is there anything I can do to make this go more smoothly?

Yes, indeed!
Make a plan for how you want to FEEL about your life.

For example, if you want to feel more passion, fun, and excitement in your life, make that your goal and then ask the Universe to bring you opportunities to do so every day.

Soon, you’ll become aware of activities and events that will allow you to experience more of the feeling you want to create for yourself.

If you want, you can then set specific goals for spending more time doing or improving at these activities.

For example, suppose you want to have more fun and adventure in your life, and you ask for it. Soon after, a friend “randomly” invites you to go surfing.
Then you try it for the first time and discover that you enjoy it, so you set a goal of becoming a better surfer, and so on.

It is not always necessary for your desire for the feeling to lead to the creation of the goal.

When your manifestations are still vibrational and not yet physical, how much of your LOA work should you discuss with friends and family?

The most important thing to remember when manifesting with the Law of Attraction is to concentrate on your visualizations and broadcast them to the Universe.
That being said, you don’t have to spend a lot of time talking to your family and friends about what you want to happen.

It’s not that you can’t bring it up in conversation, but it will have a much greater impact if you wait until you start manifesting more positive things in your life.

Soon, your friends and family will notice and may even begin to question you about it, making it easier to discuss.

But, in any case, stick to your Law of Attraction goals every day, and strive to reach that sweet spot inside your visualizations where you can truly FEEL your ideal life as your reality right now.

How can you be mentally prepared for the future in case something bad happens without succumbing to pessimism?

Remember the most important Law of Attraction mantra: “like attracts like.”
So, if you’re expecting the worst, guess what you’re going to get?

Being cautious is a fear-based emotion that can do more harm than good.

Rather than being afraid, take action by organizing yourself, conducting research, saving, or studying.

And, rather than expecting a bad result, always do your best.

If things don’t go as planned, remember that you did everything you could to get ahead, that you learned from the experience, and that you have no regrets.

How can I tell if the LOA is effective?

Many Law of Attraction instructors will quote quantum physics, but I prefer to explain it this way:
When you use the Law of Attraction with a positive and empowering mindset, three amazing things happen:
1. You are more aware of and take advantage of opportunities.
2. People treat you better and provide you with opportunities that you did not have before.
3. The Universe steps in to help you get even closer to your goals.
Expect unexpected checks in the mail and other wonderful “coincidences” to fall almost magically into your lap.
In my experience, the most powerful signs that the Law of Attraction is working come from within you.

How do we know this is the truth?

These are concepts that we use to describe the world around us, similar to the laws of gravity and motion.
And the Law of Attraction is self-fulfilling- if you believe it works, it will; if you believe it is nonsense, nothing will be able to convince you otherwise.

In this life, all you can do is figure out your own truth.
Everyone has a different perspective and point of view on what is or is not ‘real.’
What I recommend is that you put this to the test.
E2 by Pam Grout is an excellent book if you’re interested in science and want to understand how this works.
While this book did not knock it out of the park for me, it did assist me in shifting vibration, as so much good manifested for me shortly after reading it!

When I first started, I committed to doing the processes for 30 days in a row (meditation, listing some positive aspects, doing focus wheels).
So many wonderful things occurred that it blew my mind and demonstrated that this stuff works.
That was many years ago, and I still follow my procedures on a daily basis.
Put this to the test and see what happens.

So how do we create and get our stuff?

We live in a vibrational universe, and every experience we have naturally asks for things.
Every time you’ve been dumped, rejected, or failed at something, you’ve asked for more good things, and the Universe has vibrationally lined this up for you.

You get what you want by putting yourself in the position of ‘allowing.’
Releasing resistance- that knot in your stomach- by focusing on something so pure that you just feel joy flow through you OR by forgetting about it, getting off the subject.


1/ Ask- you do this naturally by living your life.
You don’t need to do anything to finish this step.

2/ Answer: The Universe does this for you vibrationally.
Your belongings are ready for you.

3/ Be patient- this is your job.
Do whatever it takes to get into a better frame of mind, and then watch how your stuff appears in your life!

How long does it take for manifestation to occur?

This is most likely one of the most frequently asked questions about the law of attraction.
How long will it take for what you want to manifest to come to you?
The simple answer is that the Universe operates on its own timetable.
You have no control over how and when your manifestation will be drawn to you.

All you can do is ask the Universe for what you want and trust that it will come to you in divine time.
While you wait, live your life, be happy, be grateful for all your blessings, and try to let go of any doubt or fear you may have – as this will slow it down.

Abraham Hicks, a popular Law of Attraction teacher, will tell you that you can have whatever you want once you let go of doubt and are in perfect alignment with your manifestation.
The longer you doubt your manifestation, the longer it will take to materialize.
Listen to the video below for an explanation.

What is the significance of letting go?

One piece of advice you’ll hear over and over is that once you’ve asked the Universe for what you want to manifest, you must let it go.
This means you’re not constantly thinking about it and instead just going about your business.

Why do you feel the need to let it go?
Because when you focus so much on what you want, you frequently focus on what you DON’T have, which is the LACK.
The Universe reads this lack and continues to give you more lack instead of manifesting the thing you asked for, making it take much longer to get what you want.

What is the significance of emotions?

Your emotions are your life’s Sat Nav or GPS.
They are a reflection of where you are vibrating.
If you are feeling negative or depressed, you will attract things that are similar to this.
When you are happy, exhilarated, and joyful, you attract what is a match for these feelings.

One of the most important things you can do for yourself is to become aware of how you are feeling on a moment-by-moment basis.
Setting an alarm for every 15 minutes and checking in with how you are feeling is a great way to get started, as Cheryl Richardson suggests.

On a basic physiological level, if you are constantly stressed and tense, your body will be constantly on adrenaline, with no time to relax and heal.
As a result, cancer and other illnesses develop.
If nothing else, it’s a good reason to pay attention to how you’re feeling.

Can the law of attraction aid in the treatment of anxiety?

Anxiety is a paralyzing emotion that worsens the more you think about it.
The more afraid you are, the worse it will be.
This is why, after having a panic attack, your fear of having another one triggers another one.
This is the operation of the law of attraction.

Have you ever been fearful before an event that you expect to cause anxiety, only to experience anxiety?
Because of your own fears and past experiences, you are exacerbating the situation.

If you suffer from anxiety, try focusing on your positive emotions no matter what situation you are in.
Don’t concentrate on your anxiety; instead, concentrate on something else, someone else, or anything else that can distract you.
Begin slowly and without force.
Changing your mindset and relaxing your body can take time during times of high anxiety.

What exactly is a flow state?

You are completely immersed in what you are doing when you are in the flow state.
You’re “in the zone,” where what you’re doing doesn’t even require much concentration because it’s so automatic.

Have you ever worked on a project and then realized you don’t remember being conscious during it?
That means you were in a state of flow.
You’re in the zone and don’t even notice the passage of time.

The reason this is beneficial to the law of attraction is that when you are in a flow state, you allow your subconscious mind to take control rather than being caught up in your conscious thoughts.
This allows you to visualize more easily and concentrate on your feelings rather than your thoughts.

Can you make a specific person appear?

This is one of the more common law of attraction FAQs, but it is also one of the more complicated.
In short, you can, but it won’t always go the way you want it to.
Why is this so?
Because there is still the possibility of free will.

Yes, if you want to be with someone who has or has the potential to have the same feelings for you, you can bring them into your life.
But you can’t make someone love you or think you’re attractive if they don’t want to.

A better question would be, “WHY do you want to attract this person?”
Dig deep and keep in mind that true love is reciprocal.
You don’t want to be with someone who isn’t truly interested in you.

How do you deal with negative people who bring your vibration down?

The best way to deal with other people’s negativity is to remember that you only have control over your own feelings and vibrations.
You can either avoid people who have low vibrations and you believe are at risk of lowering yours, or you can learn to control your own emotions better.

Nothing that someone else says or does has to affect you if you don’t allow it to.
Stop allowing other people to affect you; don’t let their words hurt you; and don’t internalize their words.
You can’t make someone else think or feel what they’re going to think or feel; you can only control your own reactions.

So do we truly attract EVERYTHING? That is difficult for me to believe…

Yes, absolutely!
It’s difficult to believe because it doesn’t seem possible or fair.
Knowing this, on the other hand, is meant to empower you rather than create self-blame.
If you can accept that you have complete control over your life and everything that happens to you, and that all you need to do is direct your thoughts and feelings in a more positive direction, this is the most liberating realization you can have.

It can be difficult to understand why a negative experience occurred to you, but if you examine the emotions that you felt surrounding that subject, you will be able to see the link to how you were feeling at the time.

And, 9 times out of 10, it is something you experience on a regular basis, and while the manifestations may differ on the surface, they all share the same emotional underpinnings.

So we make our own reality, right? That does not make me happy…

When confronted with the idea that everyone creates their own reality, some people become skeptical.
Because I’ve been living this way for so long, it’s difficult for me to understand why it doesn’t feel empowering, but to each their own.

This is analogous to someone going to their dining room every day and being served their three meals without the ability to choose.
They may enjoy the meal on some days and dislike it on others, but they always eat what they are given.
Then someone turns to them and says, ‘You know you can choose what you order for each meal; you don’t have to eat whatever is put in front of you.’
Some will say, “Oh, I’ll just leave it be and accept whatever.”
Others will be enlightened; they will peruse the menu and select which ingredients go into which meals based on their mood.

That’s both delicious and empowering.
Knowing that you have a choice in how you react and that you can put that choice into action in your life.
That life is not a series of random events that occur to you and force you to accept and make do with your lot.

This is all a bit hazy, and I can’t seem to make a connection between my thoughts, feelings, and what happens in my life!

It can be difficult to make the connection between your feelings and what happens if you’re new, especially since this is a fairly advanced skill.
If you’re having trouble with introspection, try looking out into the world.
While it is impossible to know exactly what is going on inside a person’s mind, there is usually a pattern.
Those who are successful talk about success and expect it, while those who are wealthy expect abundance.
People who are constantly ill are more likely to complain about how sick they are or how unfair life is.

So, which direction is it?
They become ill and then complain about it?
Or do they complain and then become ill?
It could be a combination of the two.
Everyone notices a situation and then reacts to it.
So someone may become ill, then feel and speak of their illness, which attracts more of the same, and so on…

However, knowing what we know, we can break the spell.
So, if you’re sick, you try to treat the illness while spending as little time as possible feeling sorry for yourself or complaining to others about how sick you are.
Although complaining can make you feel better for a while, especially if you have sympathetic listeners, it is important to remember that your ultimate goal is to move past this into better feelings.

I know it’s easy for me to wallow in self-pity when I’m sick, but it doesn’t serve me well on many levels.
Instead, I try to relax my mind by listening to relaxing music or watching an inspirational speaker.
I try not to think about anything and just breathe.
And, more often than not, my illness will resolve much more quickly.

I need to force myself to be happy and positive all of the time.

This is incorrect.
This is actually very self-destructive and unhealthy because it causes anxiety, fear, and insecurity in your mind.
Although we must not indulge in negative beliefs, we must acknowledge their existence while refusing to give in to them in order to process and then let go of them.
But keep in mind that letting go does not imply ignoring what is.
It entails accepting what is and allowing it to fade away.
You don’t even react to it.

What is the purpose of affirmations.

Their goal is to rewire your subconscious mind.
Its purpose is to assist you in replacing limiting beliefs such as ‘I am not good enough’ with ‘I am good enough.’
You write it down on a regular basis until your subconscious mind accepts it as true.

However, doing so alone is often ineffective because many people suffer from depression and other mental health issues that necessitate therapy.
So, if you’re dealing with emotional traumas, abuse, or anything else, seek help right away.
Remember that your problems CAN be solved and that a better life awaits you.
You are not meant to be in pain.
This universe adores you and wishes to collaborate with you in your creative endeavors.
You wouldn’t be here if you weren’t.

All you have to do is ask for help, and there is plenty of it.

What about infants and young children?How do they attract?

It is a common misconception that in order to attract, one must speak a foreign language or be an adult.
Babies, like everyone else, attract through their vibration.
However, because they are not fully formed, they are extremely sensitive to the vibrations of those around them and are easily influenced by their immediate family.
Because they spend so much time together, family members tend to have similar characteristics.

I believe there are some pre-birth intentions that dictate the overall essence of our journey, but I also believe in free will and the ability to change anything at any time if you so desire- that is true self empowerment.

I’d better stop thinking negative thoughts or something bad will happen! Is that correct?

Yes, in the end, you would want to, but the distinction here is that you want to stop thinking negative thoughts because they make you feel bad, not because they will cause bad things to happen.
That is the main message here: do or don’t do anything based on how it feels rather than what it may or may not bring about.
You really want to focus on the good feeling journey rather than the destination.

Negative thoughts and emotions are simply indicators that you are viewing something in a different light than the Universe/God/Source is.
That is why you are dissatisfied.
If Source Energy joined you in your negative emotion, you would not feel bad and would be unaware that it is the guidance signaling that something is wrong.
Instead, Source maintains that pure state of love and appreciation, and whenever you stray from it, it alerts you via your emotional guidance system.

Is it true that I chose this life before I was born?

Yes, I believe that on some level we were energy floating around somewhere, that we saw Earth at this particular point in time and thought to ourselves, ‘I would like to experience that.’
Those who present as different in some way (autistic, gay, physically different, etc.) chose to experience life from a stronger, different perspective because they knew it would draw more from them on some level.

When those who are different are told by those around them that they are flawed in some way, the individual begins to wish they weren’t of that orientation and has cut themselves off from who they truly are because they are seeing themselves through eyes other than their own.

Is there no mention of God?

All of this is from God!
I believe that everything is a manifestation of God.
Whatever you want to call it—God, Source Energy, the Universe, etc.—it all refers to a greater energy that we are all a part of.
Man attempts to separate God from us as a judging force from on high, but I do not believe this is the case.

Are we all the same?

I truly believe that we are all interconnected.
That we are simply a plethora of different expressions of Source, and that at our core, we are all infinite energy.
In Christopher Pike’s book ‘Sati,’ I read a beautiful analogy.
The character explains that when you poke yourself in the eye (accidentally), you don’t get annoyed because your finger is a part of you.
Similarly, when someone else does something negative, you should not be annoyed because they are a part of you.

Is it possible for me to have instant manifestation?

It is entirely possible for instant manifestation to occur.
Especially when there has been a significant release of resistance through whatever means you have used.
The majority of the time, however, there is a delay, or a ‘buffer of time.’
This is a good thing, because if everything you imagined happened at once, it would be extremely chaotic.
Instead, as you progress through life, you become increasingly clear about what you want.
You add incrementally to creation, and it is created vibrationally.
And when you are in alignment with your desire, it manifests.

Isn’t it bad to have desires or want things?

It’s not at all—in fact, it’s the very nature of life.
Many people believe that money is evil, but this is neither true nor helpful.
Physical desires can have a negative association with theft, crime, and greed.
However, all of these actions are motivated by a sense of deficiency.
When you are truly aligned and abundant, you know that there is enough for everyone and that there is no lack of any kind, so there is no need for negative actions like theft, etc.

Some religions teach non-desire, but I disagree that this is the best path to take (at least for me).
Instead, I would lean toward non-attachment, with the realization that anything you want is because you believe it will make you feel better.
So it’s fine to want a car, a relationship, or a sense of well-being, but understand that it’s all for the experience of it all, not for the stuff itself.
This is a far more pleasurable and exhilarating way of life.

This work contradicts the Bible/my religion!

This is a difficult question to answer because religion and its books are open to interpretation, and man can use almost any part of anything to justify their actions.
I’ve heard that more people have been killed in the name of religion than for any other reason—something I don’t believe God would want.

Jesus was said to have hung out with prostitutes and other people who were despised by society.
It has also been reported that he stated that the commandments can be summed up as ‘love thy God’ and ‘love thy neighbor,’ which is certainly in line with what we teach.

This ‘blame the victim’ school of thought does not sit well with me!

This may appear to teach that it is the victim’s fault, but I strongly disagree.
Blaming anyone, including the victim, is not a pleasant feeling.
Second, it is not about assigning blame; rather, it is about accepting responsibility and asking yourself, “So, I created this, now what can I create?”
It is an empowered state of being that you wish to maintain.
And you have to thank the contrast—the “bad” experiences—because they are what shaped you into the person you are today.
So many famous and successful people have been abused and suffered greatly, but it has given them the strength to focus and achieve greatness.

What about the realms of Heaven and Hell?

I don’t believe in Hell after death.
Some schools of thought, I believe, can use Hell to control you in this life, i.e., if you don’t do what we say, you’ll go to Hell.
I believe that when we die, we all go to a pure, blissful state of being, regardless of who we are or what we have done in this life.

Isn’t this a self-centered way of being?

Yes, it is, in some ways, a selfish way of being.
Only because if you are not selfish enough to prioritize feeling good, you have little else to offer.
This should be at the top of your priority list.
When you are feeling good and in alignment, you have so much more to offer everyone around you.
And you will want to be there for as many people as possible because you simply want to share your happiness.

As the old adage goes, if there is an emergency on a plane, you must put on your own air mask because you are useless if you are unconscious.

What exactly is a process? What’s the big deal about it?

A process, in my opinion, is something you do consciously to feel better.
This would include a list of positive aspects, focus wheels, and visualizations, but I would also include going to the movies, dancing, and singing- as long as they are done with the intention of keeping you in a better feeling place.

They are crucial because they are the tools you use to shift your vibration and thus attract more of what you desire.
It is the essence of being conscious!
Strive for a better thought and feeling, and watch how your life changes around you.
Even if nothing changes on the outside, your life will be very different on the inside.

What are some indicators that your manifestation is nearing completion?

If you pay attention to your surroundings, you will notice a variety of signs that what you want to manifest is getting closer; however, be aware that you may be surprised if there are no warning signs at all.

Here are some indicators that the law of attraction is at work:

You continue to receive messages from the Universe – Pay attention when you see something you are attempting to manifest more frequently.
This could be something related to your dream job, a relationship, a car, a house, or anything else.

Your mood has suddenly become calmer or happier – This is an indication that your vibration has increased and you are entering a higher spiritual level.
It could also indicate that your manifestation is nearing completion.

You notice patterns – Patterns can also be used to convey messages.
Maybe you keep seeing two birds flying at the same time, always two and never one or three.
You may notice numbers in certain sequences, such as 1111, 333, or 1616.
Keep an eye out for these patterns.

You are having dreams about what you want – Perhaps your signs are appearing in your dreams.
Another sign could be that you’ve never dreamed in color before, but now you’re having these vivid, colorful dreams.

What exactly does it mean to allow something to happen?

You are open to accepting more if you are allowing more into your life.
Whether you realize it or not, the law of attraction is at work.
Maybe you didn’t get what you wanted because you didn’t allow it, you didn’t accept the signs, and you didn’t act when the Universe tried to show you a way.

When you allow, you are much more open to the process and will gladly look for and act on the signs that the Universe is sending you.

How do you live your life “as if”?

When you live as if, you are preparing for the lifestyle that you hope to have someday.
Whatever you’re trying to manifest, you want to get as close to living in that way as possible.
Even small things count as living as if, for example, if you want to attract more abundance, you may believe that once you have enough money, you will begin taking more vacations.
Begin planning vacations right away, but keep your current budget in mind.

Another example is if you are using the law of attraction to lose weight or get healthier.
Consider how your life would be different if you changed your diet, exercised every day, woke up earlier, or spent more time with your friends.
Begin living as if by doing all of these things right now.

What exactly is a spiritual awakening, and how does it occur?

A spiritual awakening is frequently the last step before becoming truly enlightened.
You are on your own personal spiritual path when you experience spiritual awakening.
You frequently experience a sudden awakening to your purpose, what your life’s meaning is, and become acutely aware of your surroundings.
This usually occurs when your ego-mind is not clouded by your thoughts, fears, worries, plans, goals, or a sense of lack in your life.

Many of your previous beliefs are altered as a result of a spiritual awakening.
You realize that what you were taught is not always how life or the Universe works.
It is different for everyone, but learning more about the Universe and spirituality, letting go of previous thoughts or beliefs, and being extremely open-minded can all contribute to a spiritual awakening.

What is the significance of self-love in the law of attraction?

Have you ever heard that in order for someone to love you, you must first love yourself?
This is also true for the law of attraction.

How can you expect someone else to love you if you don’t feel worthy of it and have genuine feelings of love for yourself?
This is why it is critical to focus on self-love, appreciating yourself and all of your wonderful qualities, and knowing you are deserving of love.

What is the most effective manifestation technique?

Spoiler: there isn’t one.
We are all unique individuals who benefit from various things.
There are numerous manifestation techniques and methods to learn, but not all of them are appropriate for you.

Because your mind and subconscious are unique, the 555, scripting, and mirror techniques may work best for you, even though your sister benefits the most from meditation and visualization.

This is why it is critical to learn as much as you can about various techniques and to experiment with them all until you find ones that just feel right to you.

Is it enough to think positively in order to attract my manifestation?

That is the initial step.
Manifestations will not occur in your physical reality unless you think positively.
But, once you’ve decided to manifest something into the physical realm, you must be willing to take action to help bring it about.

It is now up to you to connect with your intuition and listen for nudges from the Universe.
These appear as gut feelings to do something, and they frequently lead to you being one step closer to manifesting your desire.
Your manifestation will not appear in front of your eyes.
You will be required to do some work.

However, this work should feel natural.
It should pique your interest and inspire you.
You should feel as if you are doing exactly what you were put on this planet to do.

When this feeling goes hand in hand with the action you’ve been nudged to take, you’re well on your way to manifestation.


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